The definition of Life partner: One who cares,listens,loves,respects,shares his life that so called"special person" in life is defined as Life partner!!!
When i think of my life partner, i have a blurrrrr... image of a person who is "Simple" yet with modern thinkingtowards a working wife,"calm" yet speaks a lot to me through his eyes, "respects" the fact thathis wife is equally respectable to his mother/sister, "cares" for every pain that i undergo, "shares"every mistake he has done throughout his life!!!
For me marriage is not just a new life to begin with a stranger and his family. Definitely its more than that, its that comfort you gain with him,its that shade of care u get from him, its that belongingness you gain with him, its that feeling which makes you to bind with him till your last breathe.
There might be an instance you have a wish towards your life partner, there has to be purelove between us with which u take a decision of giving your life for this life partnerwithout even thinking once. There might be 1 in Lacs who would sacrifice their life forhis life partner without even thinking of the consequences after that.
Every tear which might drop out of my eyes for the first time should be the last timein our lives. A tear, its this tear which god has abundantly gifted the women with. She can take everypain on this earth for her lovable ones, but when she is been hurted by the same lovable. It drops out of her eyes, those pretty/beautiful eyes which cannot sometimes accomodate her pain and drops out.A lady is more emotionally strong as compared to men, but men mistake her with her tears!
I barely have an idea if such gentlemen exists in this world who would ask me my expectations first before telling me his expectations. A gentlemen who would hold my hands and with his warmth we wouldwalk through our way and never complain each other or blame each other about our mistakes that we as an individual made. Blaming someone is easy but agreeing to our mistakes needs courage!!!
Even tomorrow if i end up marrying a dominant husband who has least love,respect,care for me. That wouldnt be blamed as he is wrong and he is bad to me. But this what you have chosen for yourself. Its not your parents who have chosen him but its you who have accepted him and chosen him as your life partner. And then just do your duty as an ideal wife rest it depends on him how he reflects back to your love,care,respect!!!
But i do have trust in god which gives a hope to find that special life partner for myself!!!!!!!!!
Monday, December 1, 2008
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